Talk about what kind of home you'd like and where, and the division of chores. Include conversations on how leisure time is spent and how you like to vacation. Discuss any health concerns you have about yourself or your future spouse.
Discuss financials--whether you'll have joint or separate bank accounts, your combined salaries, investments, preparing a budget and who will handle the bills. If you have charities important to you, discuss what you'd like to continue to donate to and how much.
Question #1 - - Children
Sometimes love just isn't enough to keep a couple together.
So often on the Marriage Forums, a person will share an issue in a marriage that is an obvious deal breaker. When asked if the issue was discussed prior to getting married, the answer is often "no."
Don't make that mistake. Don't get married without knowing your future spouse's thoughts on these issues that can kill a marriage.
Compromise is usually not an option if the two of you disagree on these issues that can be deal breakers.
